Tag Archives: Bullying

Ghana, Africa with O’ia-da International

Barbara Biddy’s morning and afternoon classes talked to students at Mate Masie, a school in Ghana.  This program was found through CILC and facilitated by  O’ia-da International Akoma Ntoso Cultural Center (ANCC) in Newark, which is connecting students in the U.S. and Africa in order to break down barriers of stereo-typing that contribute to cultural misunderstandings. The topic was Stop Bullying through Appreciation Not Tolerance.

Eric Jones, our facilitator from O’ia-da,  explained the meaning of the school’s name, Mate Masie. It is an adinkra symbol. The symbol of wisdom, knowledge and prudence. It means “I have kept what I have learned”. More information and pictures of our sessions may be found on the O’ia-da website:
http://www.oiadaintl.org/events.htm

Our students watched a skit about stereotyping performed by the students in Ghana. This performance was followed by a presentation on daily life and culture in Ghana. We also had time to ask questions about how they handle the problem of bullying. We learned that bullying is not a major concern because of their strong sense of community and disapproval of this kind of behavior. A major theme in the discussion centered around the importance of respect.
Both sessions ended with singing and dancing by all to “Express Yourself,” led by Ghana. We send our deepest appreciation to Ghana for sharing their music, culture, and the discussion from which we took away new knowledge and understanding. Many thanks to Eric Jones for organizing and facilitating the video conference.

The goal of O’ai-da and the ANCC is  “to teach students to look at similarities first. This will build an appreciation for that person. When a person recognizes an attractive value of the other person, they will focus on that and then the differences will not matter. They may even see what certain differences can benefit them…. Our experiences support the belief that bullying, harassment, aggression and other misbehaviours are much less likely to occur when students are learning to appreciate their culture and cultures around the world as a central part of their curriculum.”  
http://www.oiadaintl.org/index.htm

Santa Fe Trail’s Bully Proof Kid

Santa Fe Trail Middle School presented their “Bully Proof Kids” to Barbara Biddy’s grade 6 class today. Santa Fe created two replicas of kids, which were placed on a table in front of the camera. The students took turns reading messages they had written about body parts to represent ways to make yourself stronger, more confident and able to protect yourself from difficult people and situations. After each note was read, it was placed on the bully proof dummy.

You use your hands to hold onto a friend, arms to block a bully, legs to stand up for yourself, a brain to know how to get away, an achilles tendon to know where your greatest weaknesses is – some students mentioned that it was their heart.

Suffern students then shared ‘self-talk’ phrases that help them feel stronger:
I might not be you, but I’m me and proud of it.
I may not be the biggest apple in the orchard, but I’m the sweetest.
I am the one who decides who I am.

More phrases and bully proof kid phrases will be listed on the bullyshoutout wiki.

http://bullyshoutout.wikispaces.com/

Barbara Biddy’s students would like to thank Santa Fe for an incredible job. The bully proof kid presentation was well organized and the message was very clear that there are powerful tools that anyone can use to protect oneself and to make the world a better place. We hope we can continue the dialogue with Santa Fe and look forward to the pen-pal project. Many thanks to Rhonda Strecker, Library Media Specialist; Paul Giffin, Counselor, Barbara Biddy, SMS teacher and most of all to the wonderful students of both schools.

Biddy Grade 6-Kansas Bully ShoutOut

October 28, 2010 Barbara Biddy’s grade 6 class connected with Santa Fe Trail Middle School in Olathe, Kansas. This was a project that we responded to on CAPSPACE posted by Rhonda Strecker, Library Media Specialist and Paul Giffin, Counselor at Santa Fe Middle School. The students watched a video from Discovery Education entitled: Bullying, Not Just a Guy Thing. Each class generated questions inspired by the video, which were posted on Bully Shoutout, a wiki created for this particular project but open to any schools who wish to join. More conferences are planned.
http://bullyshoutout.wikispaces.com/